Tips for better sex

Sex is probably the most beautiful secondary thing in the world after sports. But what seems so simple and uncomplicated in theory is anything but easy in practice. You know that for sure yourself. The reason? Well, we are all quite different when it comes to sex and have different needs. So it's not surprising that things don't always go smoothly in bed. Looking for tips to have more fun in bed? Then our 14 tips for better sex are really a hot tip for you.

Tip 1 - Sex according to plan

Jumping into the box according to a fixed plan? That almost sounds like a training plan. Yes, and that's the way it should be. To do this, you just have to ask yourself how you do it with sports. Would you really train regularly for weeks and months without having a training plan? With love, it is similar for many couples. Often, everyday life is simply so stressful and packed that there is hardly any time left for the second most beautiful thing in the world.

Try it out with your partner. Set aside days on which you simply reserve a few hours for yourselves. And so that you don't forget, of course, the corresponding entry in the appointment calendar or in OneNote is also part of it. Once things get rolling, you'll notice that one thing leads to another. The more sexual contacts you have, the higher the probability that the number of intimate contacts will increase again all by itself.

Tip 2 - A spontaneous hot dates

You don't want to plan too strictly? Then do just the opposite and be really spontaneous for once! Just send your sweetheart a spontaneous message for a hot date after work. Or how about a short meeting during the lunch break? But don't forget to specify the correct time and place - after all, a little planning never hurt, even with spontaneous actions. So starting tomorrow, it's "later at 6 p.m. in the laundry room" or "at 1 p.m. in the back seat?"

Tip 3 - Use dirty words

If you're honest, your vocabulary of sex terms is quite large. Where you know them from doesn't matter, of course. The problem is, however, that we are very embarrassed to use these hot terms. Even or especially in front of our partner, it's hard. And so many an attempt at "dirty talk" comes across as a real lust killer. So, dare and use the dirty words "as it should be". If the conditions are right, this is exactly what can drive the desire to the extreme. Of course, you should discuss the "dirty talk" attempts with your sweetheart beforehand. Otherwise, the situation could become quite embarrassing.

Tip 4 - Sex in absolute darkness

Have you ever noticed that you perceive so many things much more intensely when you close your eyes? Be it the sounds of the forest, the scent of the sea or a breeze. Exactly the same principle applies to sex. If you really want to enjoy it with all your senses, then just turn off the light and let the love game take effect on you. Important: It really has to be pitch black. A nighttime surprise for your partner is also ideal. After all, we all love surprises, don't we?

Tip 5 - Toys and accessories always at hand

Preparation is half the battle when it comes to sex. All too often, however, we are surprised by a spontaneous lovemaking session that turns out to be more boring than we had hoped. With the right preparation, this boredom does not have to be. You should always have a few toys and accessories ready to hand in your nightstand drawer. Whether it's special sex toys, handcuffs or just a simple belt, even small things can be pretty exciting for both of you.

Tip 6 - A minty freshness kick

The essential oils contained in peppermint are true miracle cures. After all, you not only freshen your breath, but also fight headaches. However, getting rid of headaches before sex is not the reason why we recommend you to experiment with peppermint candies once. So let's reveal the secret: mint or methol candy will make oral sex a really tingling affair for both of you. After all, the refreshing coolness works not only around the mouth, but also on other mucous membranes. Experiment a little, because under certain circumstances the freshness kick may be a little too fresh.

Tip 7 - Give the partner a say in the "intimate hairstyle".

When it comes to intimate hair, we all have our individual preferences. For some, therefore, nothing is more of a turn-off during sex than a partner who lets himself go completely, with a furry jungle running rampant in the intimate area. So how about giving each other a say in each other's intimate hairstyles? Find a good middle ground - this can significantly increase the pleasure and fun during lovemaking.

Tip 8 - Sex standing

Even though the bed is the playground in most cases, it can get a bit dull due to a lack of variety. No wonder that the number of intimate contact decreases with increasing relationship duration. If you also know this problem, then just try it standing up. It may be a little more strenuous, but it's incredibly dynamic. Even better, in this position the G-spot can be reached very effectively. And that can only be positive for both of you.

Tip 9 - Perfect lesson through masturbation

Often the fun in bed fails because the manual satisfaction does not work as the partner imagines. Instead of pretending something and make good mine to the evil game or even react a little bit bitchy, you should give your partner a little lesson. Let your partner in on your knowledge of what you like in masturbation. This way, you can show your partner exactly how you climax perfectly. This may sound a bit strange at first glance, but at second glance it's an ideal way to have an intense experience together.

Tip 10 - There is no perfect sex

Sex is not about the perfect performance. After all, we're not in gymnastics or water jumping. So don't let yourself be driven by the idea of performance. That doesn't lead to the perfect experience in bed, but often to a total lull. Just have fun, be creative and enjoy the togetherness spontaneously. Perfection is not important. Your partner doesn't expect that from you either. You can believe us.

Tip 11 - Sweet sins revive the love life

Chocolate and cream make life more beautiful. This is true not only for dessert, but also in bed. So what's wrong with sweetening up your love life with a few sweets spread all over your body to raise the fun level a bit? All you need is a little spray cream or alternatively a bottle of liquid chocolate sauce.

Tip 12 - Use sexy breathing techniques

With the right breathing technique, lovemaking becomes much more intense. But you don't have to take a yoga course and learn complex breathing techniques. It's enough if you concentrate on your breathing. Breathe in and out calmly, slowly and deeply. This technique is especially useful during orgasm. By breathing consciously, you will quickly notice when it's time. If you feel that the climax is not far away, you simply hold your breath for a short time. In this way, you can delay the orgasm a little longer and make the overall experience more intense for both of you.

Tip 13 - Ice cold pampering and hot kisses

The interplay of warmth and cold is incredibly exciting. You should also take advantage of this during sex. Here you can reach for the good old ice cubes and let them slide over the hot body. And on the cooled skin, hot kisses feel even more exciting. Just give it a try.

Tip 14 - Not afraid of wild sex

It may be a cliché, but it's true: wild lovemaking is particularly intense. Reason enough to really let it rip in bed. Talk to your partner about it, and if you want to embark on this adventure, nothing stands in the way. You will see how good this change does to your love life.

And don't worry, you won't have a heart attack just because you're going all out. The chance of dying a premature sex death is less than one in a million. But: 90 percent of all "sex deaths" are men. And to top it all off, over 50 percent of these deaths also occur during a fling.