20 Signs You're Dating a Loser

It is widely known that love can blind someone in one or even two eyes - at least temporarily. After a while, however, happiness often gives way to the realization that your beloved partner is not the pearl you thought they were. Worse still, they are an absolute player who doesn't really care about you. You can find out how to recognize such a loser in the following article.

1 - When he does talk, it is exclusively about himself.

2 - He has a very limited view of women. This is particularly evident when he starts talking to his friends. This is when his extremely sexist ramblings escalate to the point where you could be forgiven for thinking that he has forgotten that his mother is also a woman.

3 - In principle, it doesn't apologize for anything. Instead, he knows how to drive you even further up the wall with his own moods. And if you get justifiably upset about it and even dare to ask him to apologize, he tells you not to make a mountain out of a molehill.

4 - He is firmly convinced that he is always right. Accordingly, it would never occur to him that things could be different. Incidentally, this is also the reason why he doesn't apologize to you or others for anything on principle.

5 - He pays little attention to you and isn't even superficially interested in your hobbies and interests. How could he? After all, he's busy typing away on his smartphone half the day, texting with seemingly more important people.

6 - If you go out with him and it's about money, he's no fun. He won't even buy you a drink in your favorite pub and insists on splitting the bill even after a meal in a restaurant.

7 - He is a real selfie fanatic. In fact, this behavior has become so ingrained that he is more concerned about showing off his muscles on Instagram than taking a photo with you.

8 - He's always talking about how other guys are really bad asses, but he's a real gentleman in comparison.

9 - He deliberately tests you with the help of friends and acquaintances to find out whether you are the right person for him.

10 - As soon as you've passed his dating test, he'll announce this to the whole team and won't even blush when he announces in the same breath that he probably won't have to contact his emergency chick after all. After all, he's got you now.

11 - His Tinder profile says that he's only looking for fun, but nothing serious by any stretch of the imagination. You can almost certainly imagine what that means.

12 - He and all his friends are not only unemployed without exception, but don't even dream of getting a serious job. Instead of taking on responsibility, he spends every weekend at the club and spends the money he has scrounged together from his parents on his head.

13 - Despite his precarious financial and professional situation, he refuses to save money and always makes it a point to walk around in sinfully expensive brand-name clothing. After all, he has to keep up his dazzling image.

14 - Even the simple statement: "How was your day?" is aimed at getting you into bed right away.

15 - He constantly asks you to send him hot pictures via Snapchat.

16 - He's only interested in chill dates that seem to be about relaxing and watching a few movies on Netflix. In reality, however, it's less about the movies and more about how he can get into your pants the fastest.

17 - He only wants to go out late at night and avoids doing activities in daylight. I wonder why that is?

18 - Basically, he won't write you back on WhatsApp or Facebook for hours, regardless of whether he has read your message or not. After all, he's busy texting with more important people.

19 - He takes it upon himself to treat you as he sees fit and not as you actually deserve.

20 - He will forever be treading water in his life and will only drink his money away in nightclubs in the future, while you continue to develop and achieve your goals step by step.